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SwedishHarmony

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I had to leave a comment after read your shared experiences and individual comments. My comment is both professional as it is some kind of personal.
I become active in this particular industry back in 1998 (I started off as an escort at Penthouse in Sydney). I collaborated with a few agencies before I started my own which was natural to me as I always been an entrepreneur and business owner. Swedish Harmony was created back in 2002, and I have from then been serving clients all around the world, and been collaborating with lots of girls from all over the world, yet mainly USA and Europe.  Today I have cut down and keep it rather small and discrete.
During the years I have received and read tons of applications from girls around the world who wants to become an escort or who has been working for years, but I have not welcomed too many into the group if I look at the amount of applications I have gone thru. Sometimes I have made mistakes in inviting the wrong person into the group as it has ended up she has stolen money or showed to be a rather complicated person. For the clients this type of girl seems to be amazing, and often has she been highly reviewed in forums and third party websites.
I have my personal attitude, morals, ethics and my personal expectations are highly involved when I am engaged in/with SHI.

Many girls have an idea of what this is about. Most of the time their idea is rather delusional. They have not much of an expectation of themselves, their attitude is lazy yet kind of  demanding (many expect but do not feel they need to give, or are not even capable to do so). It seems too many have been watching too many romantic fictions like PRETTY WOMAN..

As an escort you need to like sex and have an understanding that this is about sex - not a shopping spree or nice dinners where you after get paid to go and buy a new pair of shoes or a fancy bag. This job is client centred, NOT self-centred! If the client enjoys and would like to buy a gift, he can. Some men truly enjoys that, but this shall not be expected. To spend a few hours over a nice dinner can of course be lovely and most of the time arranged. It's kind of natural to share food together.

I have a problem with women who totally miss the point in what this is about, and it is rather common. It does not matter where they come from (even though certain countries seem to have more of a certain type of woman..), it does not matter how much you pay for her time either for that sake (you can find amazing girls for less, and a lot of "princesses" who mark themselves up $$$ and who focus more on their look on what they do on you). You also have that woman who think she is the gift to man and therefore feel the gent shall be happy to have the opportunity to spend time with her.
It does not work like that. Well, it shall NOT be like that. But it exist, everywhere.
In general an educated, driven lady, has higher expectations on herself, and also choose to be in this because she wants to, not because she is desperate or lazy...

I could spend time talking about the type of punters as well, who think he can do and say what ever he wants because he pays for a service. I personally have not come across too many of this type, but they do exist. Lots. Men who lacks respect and understanding. The less he has to offer himself, the more he demands. It is rather unattractive and can ruin any meeting...

Is not life about give and take? If it can be magic - how wonderful. If chemistry and energy arise - amazing. But this is rare, but it exist! It can happen between people and it is so fantastic when it does !
I always suggest to book a short meeting first (if possible) so both part can feel into if a longer meeting would work. This is the best way to go to limit miserable encounters. Having said that, that option is not always available. As an agent my job is to find out as much as I can about the girls, and get a really strong feeling sense into who they are, it matters and make a huge difference when matching people.  When I arrange private meetings with any gent, I try to gather as much info I can from him as well and from there match and suggest. If I do not have the lady available that I would think would be the best option for him, hopefully he can find her elsewhere.  To me it is not about turning money, it is about making people feel good about themselves. I understand why I am here. I get it. I provide a SERVICE. Right?
This is about peoples emotions and peoples money. We are here to make you happy. Not to travel to another country to have presents with me home and forgetting why I actually went there for...a gift shall not be expected. When I was active myself , I actually BOUGHT gifts to my clients. I always had something with me, no matter if we previously met or not. This I always tell the girls who works with me as well, BRING SOMETHING !

Do your home work and use your senses before booking anyone. Also remember we all have different tastes...reviews does not always reflects this as you are all individuals. Having said that, from personal experience: a great provider is in general liked by lots of different type of men, no matter nationality, age or education. She just have THAT, and it is mainly to do with her energy not necessary what she does or does not do behind closed doors. It is an overall experience she leaves you with. That is what we all shall aim for who chooses to be part of this industry.


Warm regards,
Mila
Agency Owner

 

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point of view impressive...the way things should be
 

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An excellent and more important realistic perspective.

No wonder why Mila is an entrepreneur.

My respect also  :hi: :hi: :hi:
 
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A very comprehensive and straight to the point comment, from a great Lady!  :hi:
Thank you very much for these wise and warm, mature thoughts. They should be the guideline for any girl in this business...

Respect!!!  :hi: :hi: :hi:



 

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As simple as that ...  :thumbsup:
 

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